When you are enjoying dirty talk, it can often be that your partner
will use a dirty word that you just don't like. For many women the
'C' word is a huge turn off and for many men the word 'scrotum' has
the same effect.
But if you never say anything to your significant other whilst they
are talking away to you and drop in a word you dislike, they'll
likely as not keep using it, ignorant of your dislike.
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Dirty Talk To Boyfriend
Trick is, saying 'No' to them in such a way as to not turn them off
the whole idea or make them feel embarrassed or stupid.
So if they say something - try one of these:-
"Oh I don't like that word, can we not use it baby? I did love it
when you said "XXXXXXX" though, can we go back to that bit again
"That word actually turns me off sweetheart, can we not use it
please? How about we swap it for XXXXXX, that would really get me
"Don't stop baby, that's really good. Can we change XXXX for XXXX
though please, I know it's silly but I've never liked that word?"
"Don't laugh but I find that word a bit of a turn off. Why not
stroke me just here and try using XXXX instead - I'll tell you if
that works. Touch me at the same time and you'll see it work!"
Remember, say it nicely, firmly and offer them some way out of
feeling wrong or told off or just stupid. After all, they aren't to
know until you tell them. Tell them nicely and make it constructive
and they will not only remember you don't like that word, they'll
apply effort to make you feel even better - and that can only be a
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